• Things aren’t perfect, but you feel safe and valued even when you disagree…….. OR BECAUSE If you break up with him he will punish you. •You have a right to end a relationship at any time, for any reason.
OR BECAUSE You feel obligated to stay with him, and you are just trying to wait out this bad time until things are better again. I had a friend who broke up with a boy because he didn’t like Taylor Swift! It’s hard to tell someone that you don’t want to date them anymore, but if it’s not working for you then don’t stay just because you don’t know how to leave.
• Can talk to him about anything and you know he will listen……..
OR BECAUSE you don’t have any idea how to tell him that you don’t want to be with him anymore and you are scared to try. OR BECAUSE you are afraid that no one will ever love you as much as he loves you.
Every relationship has ups and downs, but it can be hard sometimes to figure out whether or not you should break up with your boyfriend or girlfriend. Think about how many songs people have written about a broken heart? •He controls who you hang out with, what you wear, or what you are allowed to do.
Relationships become routine; it’s hard to imagine life without talking to your boyfriend every day. •He has a violent temper and can blow at any moment.
OR BECAUSE He’s the only person you have, and you are afraid that without him you will be all alone.Admitting that someone has hurt you does not make you weak, it makes you strong enough to acknowledge it; and staying with someone who hurts you is not brave and it can put your life in danger. Even if your boyfriend doesn’t hit you, an abuser can still do serious mental and emotional damage to you if you stay with him.