There’s only one thing you need to remember when texting girls: Always text with a purpose – to arrange a meet up. BONUS: If she’s not texting back, Discover The Exact Texts you need to get her texting back and on a date in our next article. So don’t wait until the next day to text a girl, or the day after that.
Because there will never be a meet up if you keep making any one of these 21 mistakes. The 3 day rule is nonsense, in fact, our Dating Metrics survey revealed 89% of women want to be first contacted within 48 hours.
Regardless, it gives you a boost of confidence when chatting with them.
If a text back from someone is considered a “reward,” consider the fact that lab animals who get rewarded for pushing a lever every time will eventually slow down because they know that the next time they want a reward, it will be waiting for them.
So basically, if you are the guy or girl who texts back immediately, you are taken for granted and ultimately lower your value as a reward.
When we don’t get the quick response, our mind freaks out.
To learn why our brains are primed to fill the gaps between texts with the worst case scenario and how all of that pinging back and forth is like a gambling addiction, check out the full excerpt over on Nautilus.So when they send you a text, you reply almost immediately.